Between anger and joy, without a word
On a summer afternoon, a child is getting ready for water activities. Asked “Are you OK?”, he does not answer: he goes to fetch the anger cushion and brings it back. Asked again, he goes off, puts anger down and comes back with joy. “Are you happy?” — “Yes!”, with a smile.
The child used two characters one after the other, without being asked, to take part in the exchange.
“No, because he's happy”
A child is going through a period of change: a baby on the way, starting school soon, leaving the nursery. His days are marked by tears and anger. One day, he brings the joy cushion. “Do you like it?” — “No, because he's happy.”
Perhaps he was expressing, in his own way, that he did not feel happy at that moment. This is a professional interpretation, not a certainty.
Welcoming a child's words, even when they surprise us, without immediately giving them a meaning.
“Mummy”: a smile and a kiss
A little girl repeatedly says she wants to see her mummy. On her own initiative, she picks the love cushion, looks at the face, smiles, says “Mummy” and kisses the character.
A choice, a word, a smile and a gesture of affection, spontaneously woven into a moment of the day.
Nap time: “Because I'm tired, me”
At nap time, a child first takes the joy cushion, then comes back: “That's not the one I want.” He chooses tiredness: “Because I'm tired, me.” He goes off to settle down with it.
More broadly, some children would fetch the cushions before falling asleep or keep them close, sometimes like a comfort object.
The cushion becomes a way to express a choice and how they feel at that moment.
In movement activities
Placed along obstacle courses, the cushions become landmarks to reach, things to go around or points to pass through. Children find them as they move and include them in their exploration of the space.
The characters are no longer only to be looked at: they become part of the movement activity.
“Where is joy?”: recognising emotions together
The idea is simple: name an emotion and invite the children to find the matching character. Depending on their abilities, they point to the cushion, fetch it or name the emotion themselves.
Everyone takes part in their own way: pointing to, picking up or bringing a character is already an answer.
In scenes imagined by the children
One child pretends to look after a cushion; others settle it down for a nap or give it a role in an imagined situation. The character takes its place in the scene, as a teddy would.
Children bring the characters into their own stories, following their own ideas.